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The Doctrine of Divine Seatbelts – Part 2

Look back at John 10:28-30. “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand.

My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.”(NIV)  I have had people tell me, “I know that no one can snatch us out of His hand but we might jump out ourselves.”  You would be stupid to do a thing like, but more importantly, it wouldn’t be a very strong shepherd that could allow a sheep to jump out.

              James Boyce, commenting on these verses has a beautiful illustration.  He says that when a carpenter has two thinner pieces of board he will take a fairly long nail and, putting the two pieces of board together, will drive a nail all the way through the boards so that it sticks out the other side. Then he will go around to the other side and take his hammer and knock down that sharp edge so it turns sideways. He says that is called “clinching the nail”. We get our phrase, “that clinches it”, from that carpenter’s analogy.
            In this passage there are two nails God drives into our security, and then He clinches both of them.  The first nail is in verse 28, the first part: “I give eternal life to them.” (Not for one hundred years, or until you backslide, but eternal life.)  Now notice how He clinches it: “and they shall never perish.”  The second nail is that no one shall snatch them out of My hand. That is the nail. Now He goes around the other side and He clinches it:  “My Father who has given them to me is greater than all and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand.”  That is the clincher.  Isn’t that beautiful?
            In the National Gallery in Scotland there is a powerful painting of a little shepherd boy holding a little lamb in his arms. The artist has cleverly, through light and shadow, made it so that when you step back from the painting and get a bigger perspective you see  in the shadows what you didn’t see before. There is the little shepherd boy with a lamb securely in his arms, but around the shepherd boy are the arms of the Father, the great Shepherd, and His arms encircle both the little boy and the little lamb. The little lamb is doubly secure in the arms of the little shepherd boy and in the arms of his father.  You and I, beloved, are the sheep known by God so that we are so secure that He gives eternal life to us and we shall never perish.
            If faith (that one thing that is not doing anything, through which God’s salvation comes to me) is the only condition to get into Heaven, the obvious question is, “How can I know I have faith?

            First of all, let’s look at some things that faith is not:

Faith is not mere wishful thinking.  We use the word “hope” this way, saying “I hope it doesn’t rain tomorrow.”  That is mere wishful thinking.  Sometimes we talk about “good faith.  There is nothing wrong with it, but that legal term doesn’t really represent anything of biblical faith.

It is not mere religious feeling.  I was talking to a man in a coffee shop once named Bill.  I asked him if he had ever personally asked Jesus Christ to be his personal Savior.  He said, “Yah, I am religious myself.”  I said, “When did this happen?”  He said, “One day I was up on a mountain side, and there was such beauty of nature, I had this great glorious feeling of peace.”  “And?”  “That was it.  That great glorious feeling of peace.”    He had a religious feeling, but not saving faith.  I went on to find out he did not believe in Christ.  He thought you just had to live a good life to be saved.  It was a religious feeling. 

It is not mere credulity or gullibility.  I am convinced that some people would believe me more if I told them that I was Uncle E.T. and came from some other planet.  Or that I can raise the dead and put arms back on armless people.  The more outlandish the story, the more easily they will believe.  A lot of the so-called miracles, angel experiences, etc. are nothing but credulity and gullibility and have nothing to do with biblical faith.

It is not optimism.  A positive mental attitude is a good thing to have but that is not biblical faith.  If you want to try to win over worry and you want to be successful by getting up in the morning and standing in your bedroom and shouting out three times, I believe, I believe, I believe, I won’t mind that.  Maybe the people in your house will mind that, but that is fine if you want to do that.  But don’t be surprised if you come to me and I ask you, what do you believe?  Positive thinking, as if somehow magically I can make things happen just by believing they will happen, is not biblical faith.

Biblical faith is not a religious ritual.  Faith is not your baptism, whether as a child or an adult.  Faith is not walking down an aisle.  Faith is not taking the Lord’s Supper.  Faith is not lighting a candle.  Faith is not saying prayers.  Faith is not reading the Bible.  Faith is not confessing to some man.  Any of those may be the result and a proof of faith but they are not faith.  Don’t confuse the cause and effect.  They are not faith.

                        That brings me then to ask, “What is Biblical faith?”.  

Faith is man’s response to God’s initiative.  God does something; man believes; man trusts it; man is willing to act upon it; and that is faith.  Faith is hanging your body on the Word of God.  Faith is being willing to risk everything that God is true, even if it points out that every man is a liar.  Faith is believing God in spite of circumstances.  Faith is a refusal to panic.  Faith is believing God and God’s Word. 

            So it is the response to whatever God says.  If God says, “here is a promise”, faith is believing that promise.  If God says, “here is a commandment”, faith is obeying that commandment.  If God says, “don’t do this”, faith is not doing that.  Faith is the response to God’s initiative.  Therefore, it involves the intellect, emotion and will.  One of the best answers to the question is in the little acrostic F A I T H , meaning Forsaking All, I Trust Him.  Forsaking all your rules, religion rituals, and regulations, and not trusting in your goodness.  Faith is a transference of your trust from yourself and all of your own goodness to Jesus Christ and His death on Calvary alone for your salvation.  Forsaking All, I trust  Him. 

To be continued

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Basic Distinctions in Understanding our Salvation

A. Distinguish Between Justification and Sanctification.

1. Justification is God’s action of declaring a believer righteous.  It is a legal analogy taken from the courtroom. 

2. Sanctification is an analogy taken from the religious world of the temple.  In sanctification God sets the believer apart as “sacred” to Himself and His purposes.  From this comes the concept of making the believer (positionally, progressively and perfectly) righteous..

B.  Distinguish Between Being a Christian and Being a Good Christian.

The difference is analogous to the difference in the relationships of marriage — between being married and being a good husband/wife. One is a relationship brought about in a point of time; the other is a life-long working out the results and implications of that relationship. One is a question that can be answered with confidence and assurance.  The other is a question that is answered with hope and attempt and growth.

C. Distinguish Between Positional Truth and Experiential Truth.

Positional truth has to do with our standing in the mind of the eternal God in Heaven. Experiential truth relates to what I experience and how I live here and now on earth.  God sees the person in His Son as perfect and accepted (Eph. 1:4-6).  Daily we are to bring our lives and life-styles into conformity with that high calling (Eph. 1:18-20; 4:1).  The classic illustration of this is the story of the twelve year old prince who upon the death of his father suddenly becomes a king, but experientially he is still a twelve year old boy.  It will take months and even years for him to learn all his duties, the protocol of court, and become mature in his judgments.  He must learn to bring his daily practice up to his high position.

D. Distinguish Between Security and Assurance.

Security is what we have objectively in Christ who promises that we shall never be plucked from His and the Father’s hands (John 10:27-29).  Assurance is our internal confidence of our safety and security

E. Distinguish Between Relationship and Fellowship.

Relationship has to do with our eternal salvation and can never be broken or forfeited.  Fellowship has to do with our day-by-day entering into the blessings of that relationship, and may be broken by willful, unrepentant disobedience to God.

F. Distinguish Between the Different Types of Forgiveness.

1. Social forgiveness

The forgiveness of a person by a society or a group within a society (John 8:1-11).

2. Church forgiveness

The forgiveness by a church body (2 Cor. 2:5-8).  Forgiveness assumes that the offending person has admitted guilt and appropriate confrontation and discipline have been applied.

3. Eternal forgiveness

The forgiveness once for all of all the believer’s sins.  This is positional, eternal, unalterable (Eph. 1:7; John 5:24) and conditional only on faith.

4. Personal forgiveness

The forgiveness of one human person of another (Eph. 4:12).

     a. Vertical Forgiveness (Mark 11:25-26).  An unconditional act of the will releasing the offending person from payment, vengeance and retaliation.

     b. Horizontal Forgiveness (Luke 17:3-4).  The formal forgiveness on the condition of his repentance (Matt 18:21-22).

       1) Not desiring his hurt.

       2) Not holding it against him.

       3) Not talking about it to others.

       4) Not letting my mind dwell on it.

5. Paternal forgiveness

The temporal, experiential and conditional forgiveness by the Father of His children and the restoring of fellowship (Matt. 6:12, 14-15; 18:2-35).  It is conditioned on our confession (1 John 1:9) and our forgiveness of those who sin against us.

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THE 10 COMMANDMENTS – They are more relevant and needed today than ever in our nation’s history!

Every game has rules. In basketball, one of the rules is that you can’t walk or run with the ball unless you are bouncing it on the ground at the same time. In football you can run with the ball but you may not bounce the ball. That’s called a fumble. In baseball you can run until you’re tagged with the ball. In golf, you may only touch the ball with a club, and then only for the purpose of hitting it into a little hole punched in the lawn. In volleyball you can hit the ball, only once, but you can’t catch, dribble it on the ground, or run with it. Those are the rules.  Without rules there wouldn’t be much of a game. Everyone would do whatever he or she pleased. There would be no cooperation, no play, and no fun. Rules provide freedom for people to play together. And we all know what happens to the person who doesn’t play by the rules. He gets thrown out of the game.  God has rules for playing the game called, “Life.” We call them “The 10 Commandments.”

The Need for the 10 Commandments Today

A few years ago Ted Turner, a major TV executive, said on TV what he thought of our current morality. He declared the Ten Commandments obsolete and part of a religion for losers. He went on to propose ten “voluntary initiatives” as a humanistic alternative. I believe that the reason most folks struggle with the Ten Commandments is that they have never established a personal relationship with the Author, the one and only living God, whose name is Jesus. But we who have a personal relationship with Jesus agree with the apostle Paul’s statement that “;…the law is holy, and the commandment is holy, righteous and good”; (Romans 7:12). Today the words of Isaiah 5:20 are needed: “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness.” We have a terrible decay of morals today, yet some think we need no absolutes.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger writes: “‘Ship me somewheres east of Suez, where the best is like the worst,” Rudyard Kipling wrote, ‘Where there ain’t no Ten Commandments, an’ a man can raise a thirst.’ Geography notwithstanding, England might be the place! The British newspaper The Sunday Times (November 16, 1997) reported that the Church of England’s liturgical commission decided to remove the commandments from the holy communion service in the new millennium prayer book. “Philip Gore, a synod member for the Manchester diocese, said the decision reflected the church’s fear that any kind of religious challenge will alienate congregations. Earlier this year, it emerged that the church had suffered its biggest drop in attendance for more than twenty years. ‘Many in the church do not want a God who makes too many demands of them,’ he said. ‘Therefore, they want to dismiss the commandments as irrelevant to our modern age.’” – from The 10 Commandments, by Dr. Laura Schlessinger and Rabbi Stewart Vogel

The Nature of the 10 Commandments

The term “decalogue” comes from Exodus 34:28: “he wrote on the tablets the words of the covenant-the Ten Commandments,” and Deuteronomy 4:13: “he declared to you his covenant, the Ten Commandments.” These “ten words” were different from the rest of the law God gave to Israel in that they were audibly delivered to Moses in Israel’s hearing by God himself and later written by God on two tables of stone.  The principles of the decalouge are timeless and universal. Each of the 10 “words” is repeated for believers in the New Testament. They remain today as relevant as when they were given. What could be more relevant than principles that deal with family, abortion, war, capital punishment, euthanasia, poverty, the new morality, divorce laws, burglaries, theft, and the credibility gap in advertising, television news, and government. They have to do with the protection of our lives, our property, and our reputations.  The laws were given as a covenant, or treaty agreement between God and Israel. They express the rightful expectations of the Lord’s claim upon those He has redeemed.  They may be divided thus:

Reverence for God

1.  Against Polytheism
2.  Against idolatry
3.  Against dishonoring God’s name
4.  Against dishonoring God’s day
5.  Against dishonoring parents (God sees parents as representatives of Himself, therefore any dishonoring of parents is dishnoring of God.)

Respect for Man

6.  Against needless violence and criminal negligence
7.  Against violating the marriage union
8.  Against violating the sanctity of property
9.  Against false witness
10.  Against envy and greed

Most of the New Testament argument against the law is against legalism.  Legalism thinks of justice in terms of fear rather than love; hopes to escape retribution by obeying the law perfectly, and builds a wall against human error by developing laws for every situation.  What we do learn from the 10 Commandments is a picture of the high moral standards of the holy God.

Jesus Fulfilled the Law:

1. He was made under it (Gal.4:4).
2. He perfectly obeyed it (John 8:46; I Pet.2:22-23).
3. He was as the minister of it (Lk.10:25-37).
4. He fulfilled its types in life and death (Heb.9:11-26).
5. He bore its curse in our stead (Gal.3:13-14).
6. He made believers “sons” instead of “servants” (Gal.4:1-7).
7. The believer is “in-lawed” to Him under the law of Christ (I Cor.9:21).

Those of us who have invited Jesus to become our Lord and Savior know that God has placed His Law on our hearts and minds and has given us His Holy Spirit to empower us to walk in His will and live according to His Law (Romans 8:3-4).

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The Anguish of Anger

     Anger and bitterness are devastating to Biblical love, good relationships and growing in Christ. Failing to put off anger and bitterness grieves the Holy Spirit, gives Satan an opportunity in your life, obscures your witness to others, and disrupts the unity in the Body of Christ.  Dealing biblically with anger and bitterness requires whole-hearted obedience to God’s Word in every circumstance and with every person, even if your feelings dictate otherwise (Matthew 5:16; Romans 14:19; 1 Corinthians 13:4?5; 2 Corinthians 2:10?11, 5:14?15; Galatians 5:17?26; Ephesians 4:1?3, 26?27, 31?32; 6:11; Colossians 3:8?15; Hebrews 12:15).

     Anger (great displeasure, animosity) that is quickly aroused or quickly expressed is characteristic of the flesh apart from Jesus Christ and is contrary to Scripture (Galatians 5:19?20; Colossians 3:8; James 1:19?20).

Bitterness is related to anger and demonstrates a great dissatisfaction with God’s sovereignty in your life.  Bitterness arises out of living to please self instead of living to please the Lord. (Acts 8:18?23; Romans 3:10?18, esp. vs. 14) and causes much trouble (Hebrews 12:15). 

     Since God’s Word commands you to put away anger and bitterness (Psalm 37:8; Ephesians. 4.31; Colossians 3:8), it is possible to do so (1 Corinthians 10:13; Hebrews 2:17?18, 4:15?16).  You do not need to defend or preserve what you perceive to be your “rights” (Psalm 37:23, 84:11?12; 1 Peter 2:19?25), because God causes all things to work together for good to those who belong to Him and love Him (Romans 8:28?29).  We are told to control our spirits (Proverbs 25:28), be slow to anger (James 1:19) and to deal with anger quickly (Ephesians 4:26?27).  

     We are told to put off anger, wrath, bitterness, quick-temperedness, dissension, abusive speech, and strife; and we are told not to take into account a wrong suffered (Matthew 5:21?22; 1 Corinthians13:5; Ephesians 4:31; Colossians 3:8; 1 Timothy 2:8; Titus 1:7).  Instead, we are told to put on patience, kindness, humility, bearing with one another, tender-heartedness, forgiveness, love and self-control (Ephesians 4:31?32; Colossians 3:12?14).

     Since Scripture states that a child of God is to be angry and not sin (Ephesians 4:26?27), it is possible to do so (Roman 6:12?13; 1 Corinthians 10:13; 1 Peter 1:13?16).  In order to “be angry and sin not” we must obey God’s Word with no exceptions (2 Timothy 3:16?17) and must completely follow the example of God (Matthew 5:48; Ephesians 5:1) and our Lord Jesus Christ (1 Peter 1:14?16, 2:21?22).

Anger becomes sin when you:

A. Are Quick?Tempered or Have Angry Outbursts (Galatians 5:20; Ephesians 4:31; James 1:19)

B. Become Angry and Are Not Merciful, Compassionate and Forgiving (Nehemiah 9:17; Ephesians 4:32)

C. Seek Vengeance or Retaliation against Another (Romans 12:17?19; Hebrews 10:30)

D. Violate Biblical Love in Your Anger (1 Corinthians 13:4?8; 1 Peter 4:8)

E. Fail to Demonstrate the Fruit of the Spirit in Your Thoughts, Words or Actions (Galatians 5: 22?23)

F. Use Words That Are Not Edifying (Matthew 12:36?37; Ephesians 4:29)

G. Respond Angrily in Order to “Protect Your Rights” or “Get Your Own Way” (Luke 9:23; 2 Corinthians 5:15; 1 Peter 2:21?23)

Basic causes of anger:

A. A Violation of My Rights

B. A Frustration of My Goals

C. A Disappointment of My Expectations

D. A Denial of My Needs                                                      

How not to act when anger comes:

A. By Justifying – Some excuse anger saying, “God was angry (Numbers 25:4) and Jesus was angry (Mark 3.5), so I can be angry too.”  Unlike God, our flesh is in continual conflict between good and evil (Romans 7:14, 25; Galatians 5:17).  As a result, we have difficulty responding to emotionally?charged situations without sinning.

B. By Exploding – You explode in a rage or temper, striking out physically or verbally at people or things (this disregards Proverbs 16:32; Matthew 7:12; Romans 14:19; 1 Corinthians 13:4?5; Colossians 3:17).

C. By Ventilating – You express anger outwardly (“ventilate your anger”) by beating a pillow (or another inanimate object) while thinking (or speaking) about the person with whom you are angry or bitter (this disregards Psalm 19:14; 2 Corinthians 10:5; Philippians 2:3?4, 4:8?9; Colossians 3:2).

D. By Selecting – You control your temper at work (in front of your boss) and at church (in front of Christian brothers and sisters), but you exercise little or no control at home.

E. By Harboring – You have an abiding (continuing) anger against another (Matthew 5:21?22) or let the sun go down on your anger (i.e., fail to deal with your anger in a biblical manner but harbor it instead) (Ephesians 4:26).

F. By Resenting – You become angry and neglect to rejoice, to pray or to give thanks in the situation in which you find yourself (1 Thessalonians 5:16?18).

1. Definition – Resentment is a subtle emotion and is often mistaken for its close relative, the grudge. Grudges include a quest for revenge – an obsessive need to get back at another person or organization for some insult.  Resentment is a continuous seething anger that doesn’t lead to any specific retaliation.  Hostility is rarely expressed directly to the person or people who are resented.  When people act on their resentment, they almost always act inappropriately because resentment is based on thinking errors which cause people to distort or misunderstand the events that lead to resentment in the first place.

2. Why we become resentful – Resentment is usually triggered by an event that is perceived as unfair.  In some cases, people become resentful because they are oversensitive.  They are bothered by what most would consider rather petty or unimportant issues.  What is most inwardly damaging about resentment is that it relieves us of responsibility for owning up to the quality of our choices and of changing our lives in positive ways.  It is often easier to remain a resentful victim than to acknowledge that some of our strategies do not work or to admit that we have made wrong decisions along the way.

G. By Responding Badly – You sin when you respond angrily in areas where Scripture has already told you how to act with regard to:

1. An enemy  You must look for and meet his needs (Romans 12:20) and show love to him (Luke 6:35).

2. Civic authorities  You are to obey them and give to them what is due (Romans 13:1?8; 1 Pet. 2:13?15), unless their demands contradict God’s Word and would force you to sin.

3. An unreasonable supervisor  You are to submit (1 Pet. 2:18), except when doing so would cause you to disobey Scripture (Genesis 39:7?9).

4. Your circumstances  You are to trust God and be content (Ecclesiastes:14; Romans 8:28?29; Philippians 4:11?13; 1 Timothy 6:6?8).

5. Your trials  You are to cooperate with God and respond joyfully as He develops Christlike character in your life (Romans 5:3?5; James 1:2?4).

6. Unjust treatment  You are patiently to endure and thus find favor with God (1 Peter 2:19?20).

7. Fellow believers who are caught in sin  You are to restore them in gentleness (Gal 6:1) and not regard them as enemies (2 Thessalonians 3:15).

8. Your parents (while they are in biblical authority over you)  You are to obey them in a manner that pleases the Lord (Ephesians 6:1; Col. 3:20).

9. Your children   You are not to provoke them to wrath but are to teach them with the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).

10. Husbands and wives  Each is to submit to one another (Ephesians 5:21) and to love each other in a consistently biblical manner (1 Corinthians 13:4?8; Ephesians 5:25; Titus 2:4).

11. Scripturally qualified church leaders  You are to obey them (Hebrews 13:17) and to esteem them highly in love (1Thessalonians 5:12?13)        

Working from inside out:

A. Your Heart Is Revealed by Your Thoughts, Words, and Actions (Matthew 12:34-35, 15:18?20; Mark 7:20?23; Luke 6:45).  Sinful anger reveals that you are living to please yourself (2 Corinthians 5:15; Galatians 5:16 ? 21; Colossians 1:10).

B. One Who Is Slow to Anger Has Great Understanding (Proverbs 14:29).  He is better than the mighty (Proverbs 16:32), is able to pacify contention (Proverbs 15:18) and is obedient to God’s Word (James 1:19 ? 20).

C. One Who Is Wise Turns Away Anger (Proverbs 29:8) and Holds Back His Own Anger (Proverbs 29:11).

To “Turn the other cheek” (Matthew 5:20?22, 38- 42)

A. We Are All Guilty of These:

1. Anger (orge) – A subtle kind of anger – a long-lived selfish, bitter anger.

2. Raca – A word of contempt – to call a man a nobody, a nothing.

3. Fool (moros) – An immoral fool – the one who ruins and kills a man’s reputation.

No passage is better known, or more misunderstood than this one.  The Sermon on the Mount is not meant to be a detailed set of rules for every situation of life.  The believer must rely on the Holy Spirit and the Word to guide him.  We are to use the spirit not the letter.  Jesus is not talking to nations here but to individuals who understood the Beatitudes.

The purpose of the Old Testament law (the law of retaliation – Exodus 21:24; Deuteronomy 19:21; Leviticus 24:20) was not one of revenge.  “Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord. I will repay” (Deuteronomy 32:35; Romans 12:19).  The purpose of this law was to control excesses; for example, the taking of a life in punishment for a minor offense.  This law was meant to “fit the punishment to the crime.”  The individual did not have the right to carry this out, because this was a national law.  It was carried out through governmental channels.  Jesus gave four illustrations of the opposite of retaliation:

B. Yield Your Rights Over Your:

1. Reputation – v. 39 – Note the right cheek – to do this you would do it with the back of your hand – considered the highest insult (in Jewish Rabbinical law).  The term “right cheek” really refers to an insult. Jesus is here saying that when someone insults you, you do not have the right of retaliation (cf. John 18:22 ? 23).

In Acts 16:36 ? 37, Paul demanded justice because it was the justice of the land.  It was not a matter of personal insult.  In 1 Corinthians 9: 4 ? 6, 12, 19, there is an example of Paul and personal insult.

2. Possessions – v. 40 – You do not have a right to your possessions because they belong to God and He can take care of His own possessions.  Exodus 22:26 – 27 says you cannot take a man’s cloak.  The point is, if your shirt can help another man, give him a coat also.  If you really want to help, sacrifice – it really is not yours anyway.

3. Time – v. 41 – You do not have a right to your time.  This is strange to us who live in a free society.  In Jesus’ time, a soldier could force anyone to carry “baggage” for him.

4. Money – v. 42 – The basic principle is that you are not your own, you were bought with a price, so glorify God in your body (Matthew 20:28; Philippians 2:5 ? 11).

The cure for anger:

A. Distinguish Between “Rights” and “Responsibilities.” Rights divide; responsibilities unite.

B. Decide on Your Master:  Your master may be others, yourself, God, Satan (Romans 1:1; Matthew 20:28; 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20; Proverbs 22:24 – 25)

C. Admit That You Are Angry.

D. Correct the Injustice- Two things are more important than worship: Obedience (1 Samuel 15:22) and Relationships (Matthew 5:23 ? 24)

E. Do It Immediately ? Matthew 5:25 ? 26.

F. Ask God to Change Your Heart – Psalm 51:10

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The Doctrine of Divine Seatbelts – Part 1

          In I John, Chapter 5, John is dealing with a group of people who had some very strange beliefs, and they have affected us throughout the centuries.  They emphasized knowledge, and were called “gnostics”.  In chapter 5, John contrasts to their “Knowledge” several “know-so” statements of true knowledge from God.  In verse 9, John points out the terrible sin against God of unbelief.  It is calling God a liar.  The one who won’t believe makes God a liar because he has not believed in the witness that God has borne concerning His Son.  And notice what the witness is: (verse 11), – that God has given us eternal life.  Any view of conditional salvation or security runs smack into the problem that God promises life, not for ten years or a hundred years, or until we backslide, but forever.  In Verse 11, “this life is in His Son.  He who has the Son has the life”.  (Black and white)  “He who does not have the Son of God does not have [this eternal] life.  “These things I have written to you”, verse 13, “that you may know that you have eternal life.”  That is very simple, isn’t it?  Note John’s certainty – Verse 15, “if we know”…  Verse 18, “we know”…  Verse 19, “we know”…  Verse 20, “we know.”

            We need to ask some questions.  One of them is: “How am I saved? (Or by what right do I get into Heaven?)”  Whether you have assurance of security or not depends on how you are saved.  If you are saved by your good works then you can never know if you are saved.  If you are saved by God that is something else.  Scripture teaches that you are saved by God’s grace, (Eph.  2:8,9).  The word “grace” means “the undeserved favor or gift of God”.  By God’s undeserved favor He gives you the gift of salvation.  It is because of Christ’s death that God can be so generous.

            Romans 3:24,25 tells us “being justified freely [that means “without a cause” – see John 15:25 where the same word is translated ‘without a cause’], by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus whom God has set forth as a propitiation in His blood.”  The satisfaction of God’s wrath was paid for by the blood of Christ.  That is a clear teaching of Scripture.  I can rest on the fact that “Jesus paid it all, all to Him I owe, sin had left a crimson stain, He washed it white as snow.” 

            It is through faith.  That is the only thing that God asks.  Faith is never a work.  It is never a good thing that God will attribute to you.  It is simply the channel through which you receive the gift, that is all.  It is as negative as it is positive.  It is as much saying “I will not trust anyone or anything else, nor my own good works”, as it is receiving the gift of eternal life that He gives in His Son.  It is through faith.  Romans 4:4,5 says if you work, then it is not a matter of grace; it is a matter of earning something, a matter of reward.  John 3:16, is that best loved verse…  Did you ever notice the negative and the positive stated there?  Not only does God promise eternal life, He says “you shall never perish”.  He puts it both ways for us.  How am I saved?  By God’s grace, by Christ’s death, through faith.  That is it.

            The second question we must answer is  “Has God provided salvation or has God provided a chance for salvation for those who believe?” You see, those who teach in any sense that you can lose your salvation must say that God has not provided salvation for us, but He has only provided a chance for those who believe to be saved.  So that when you trust Christ as your personal Savior, what God gives you is not salvation, but a chance.  He gives you a raffle ticket.  If you work well enough and you stay faithful enough and if you will be good enough, then you will earn your salvation at the end of life.  That is essentially what they have to say.  But that is not what Scripture teaches.

There are three views that you can take at this point.  Let me express them by little analogies

            First is the view I am presenting.  I call it the doctrine of divine seat belts.  God has made us secure in Christ. 

            A second view that you can take is the doctrine of revolving door.  It is the idea that you can get salvation and lose it and get it and lose it and get it and lose it (and some believe you lose it almost every time you sin.)  It is like a revolving door.  You are in and out of heaven. 

            The third I call “The waterfall.” Salvation is like being swept along with a current and unless you swim really hard against that current you are going to fall off the waterfall to oblivion to perish.  It is the idea that there is the possibility of apostasy, that if you ever turn your back on God you are lost forever and forever and forever, never to be renewed, never to be saved.  It is not an in and out thing.  If you ever apostatize you are gone forever.

            Those are the three views.  Let me quickly say that the one view that you cannot take and be serious with Scripture is the revolving door view.  That view is never taught in Scripture and there is not even a verse that they can give you to indicate such a thing.  I don’t believe the waterfall idea is in Scripture either, but those who believe it have some verses that sound that way.  You only have two choices.  Either you are eternally saved or you are eternally lost.  Either you are eternally secure or you are eternally over the waterfall never to be able to come up again.  Those are the only views that are consistent with any serious understanding of the Word of God.

            So, has God provided us salvation or just a chance for salvation?  The answer is: He has provided a complete salvation.  Again in Ephesians 2:8,9 the whole process is the gift of God complete. “Not of works lest any man should boast.”  To any degree that you could work for your salvation, to that degree you would get glory for it, and God will not share His glory with anyone.  There is no boasting.  In Hebrews 9:27,28, God says it is a once-for-all action that we are resting upon.  The sin question has been settled once for all when He died.  It is a once-for-all salvation.  There is no continuation to it.  He has provided salvation, not merely a chance for salvation to us.

Four passages teach clearly the Doctrine of Divine Seat Belts:

            1. Ephesians 1:3-6.  God didn’t choose us because He knew we would be good, etc.  His purpose looks beyond this life – “To be holy and blameless before Him in love.” (That only happens when you are in glory, but in the mind of God that happened in eternity past.)

            2. Romans 8:33-39, what Paul does in Romans 8 is take everything that might ever make us lose our salvation and discuss it

            3. Philippians 1:6,  “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. (NIV)

            4. John 10:28-30  “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand.  v29 My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand. (NIV) 

John gives us tests so that we can be sure we have exercised faith:

1.  A Personal Test.   I John 5:11-13.   Do you have the Son?  Have you taken the knowledge about Jesus and His death on Calvary for you, combined it with a desire to have your sins forgiven and a love for Him, and by a personal act of your will said, “Lord Jesus, I here and now trust you alone as my personal Savior.   I transfer my trust from myself and my goodness to You and You alone for eternity.”  Have you passed the personal test?

2.  A doctrinal test.   Faith has some content to it.   I John 2:18-27, I John 4:1-6, are all about Jesus coming in the flesh.   Anyone who denies that God came in the flesh in Jesus is the Antichrist.   That is the very spirit of the antichrist.   To deny the true person of Jesus Christ.   Jesus is undiminished deity and perfect humanity in one person forever.   Any man who denies that cannot call himself a Christian.  

The same thing he tells us in his second book.   In fact, he says that if anyone comes not bringing the doctrine of Christ, if he is in error in his relationship to the person of Christ then don’t bring him into your house and don’t bid him God-speed.   Even to bid him god-speed is to be a partaker of his evil deeds.   That is II John 9-11.  

The test of the doctrine of Christ – is your faith exclusively in Christ, not a church, not some ritual, not some living a good life, or having a life style that pays your bills and takes care of your neighbor and goes to church, all those things are good.   But that is not the primary step.   The primary step is trusting Jesus Christ and His death on Calvary’s cross for you alone.   Is there some content to your faith or is it merely some vague religious feeling?

3.  A Moral Test.  I John 2:3-6,; I John 5:18.   That is one of the most difficult verses, if you are going to take it the way those who have a revolving door theology want to take it.   I think there is a fairly simple answer to it but I agree it is a difficult verse.  

Let me say two things about it.   #1, it is a difficult verse.   #2, it is one of the most essential verses in the Bible.   I am so glad John put it there.   What John is saying is the same thing he was saying back in chapter 2, and chapter 3, and in chapter 4.   That the one who is born of God does not live in sin.   And he states it here in the absolute so that no one can ever say that one can justify his sin.   He has a whole different nature.  

It is like the difference between a pig and a lamb -not their size but their nature.   A sinner may sin, and a believer may fall into the same sin that an unbeliever falls into.   (You cannot interpret this to mean that the as a Christian you never sin again for the simple reason that it would contradict John’s first chapter.  (1:8-10))  It cannot mean that you can ever come to a point where you are not able to sin.  Scripture never teaches that.   What it does mean is that you are able not to sin.   That the rule of life is opposition to sin, not sin.   A pig may fall into a mud hole and so may a lamb.   The difference is that the pig by nature loves the mud hole.   A lamb may fall in the mud too but he doesn’t love it.   He may for a little while.   Pretty soon a lamb gets tired of the mud and he will bleat and he will try until the shepherd gets him out.   They are of two different natures.   We often talk about someone who as a habit does something.   We begin to call them certain words.   A man who is constantly lustful is a “lecher”..  John is saying that the one born of God does not remain in a life obsessing sin.

Now you say, “Why did he put it that way?”  Suppose he had put it any other way.   The ancient heretics, the Gnostics, used to say,  “We can do as we please.  It doesn’t affect our spiritual life.”  Many ever since that have been trying to say that.   Suppose John had said, “We know that no one who is born of God does very many sins.”  Then there would be rascals and hypocrites all the way through history saying, whenever you tried to point out some sin in their lives, “Oh, but John just said we won’t do much sin but this one is all right.”  They would rationalize it..  You would never have any standard by which you could say, “Be ye perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect.” (Matt.5:48)

John is saying the same thing James says.   Faith produces activity.   If your life is bent towards sin and there is no desire of change somewhere, then you had better ask yourself the moral test of your faith.   God will never allow any idea that he entertains darkness, that he entertains sin.   We are both sinners and sinless at the same time.   Sinless in the eyes of God but sinners every day, yes.  But there is a life style, he says, that is a test of your faith.  I have a lot of compassion for people who sin.   No one has ever come into my office and ever honestly presented me with a sin and some problem in their life that I, as best I know in my heart and life, have not been compassionate.   But when someone comes in and tries to rationalize sin by some religious means, like one man who told me that God had told him that it didn’t matter if he divorced his wife and married his secretary, and that his secretary was so spiritual that they could have a greater ministry together than his wife – My answer for those kind of people is never compassion.   It is the same blast Jesus gave the Pharisees.   You hypocrites and generation of snakes, why did you come to me? We should never tolerate justification of sin by some religious or spiritual or Bible quoting means.   The man who is harsh on his family and tells me it is because God tells him that he is the head of the home,  I feel like hitting him over the head with a Bible before he gets out of there.   That is unadulterated barf and we should have no part of it.

If you come as a repentant sinner, friend, there is compassion for the sinner.   But there is no excuse for the lazy.   You can never presume upon the grace of God.   This verse is somewhat like the fact that there is only one death-bed confession in Scripture.  That is the thief on the cross.   There is one, so no one ever need despair, but only one so no one ever dare presume.

4.  A social test.   John 13:34-35, I John 2:7-11, 3:11-18, I John 4:7-21 all say the same thing.   By this shall all men know that you are my disciples, that the one mark of the Christian is going to be that you love one another.   Any one, John says, that comes and like the Gnostics in their cold individualism says, I can love God and hate my neighbor, is a liar.   The bent and direction of my life is forgiveness and understanding and kindness and consideration and love for my family and for my neighbors.   It is a social test of whether I have faith.

How do I apply these?  I ask first of all, have I personally trusted Jesus Christ alone for my eternal salvation?  Has that faith included the fact that Jesus is God become man and dying for my sins.   Has it resulted in some direction in my life that points toward God and has it made me more loving toward others.   Those are the questions  that you and I need to ask ourselves.

Faith is believing God and God’s Word.  It is the response to whatever God says.  If God says, “Here is a promise”, faith is believing that promise.  If God says, “Here is a commandment”, faith is obeying that commandment.  If God says, “Do not do this”, faith is not doing that.  Faith is the response to God’s initiative.  Therefore, it involves all three of our faculties: intellect, emotion and will.

One good way to illustrate this is by an analogy that God Himself uses – marriage.  The primary meaning of marriage is that it is a life-size picture of Christianity.  It is one huge object lesson, life long, of all that God is to the believer.  That is why divorce is so terrible in God’s eyes.  It breaks the analogy of Christianity.  It has God separating in the analogy from His loved one, and He never does that. 

The analogy brings up two different sets of questions.  Let us suppose that you asked me if I were married?  I would answer, “Yes”.  Not  “I think so”, or “I hope so”, or “I am trying to be.”   I would give you no nonsense about having been married all my life or that I grew up in a married home.  “I go to weddings all the time.”   How about that one?  You laugh because that is a stupid answer.  You ask me if I am married?  “Yes.”   How do I know I am married?  Not because I wear a ring.  A ring is a symbol of a marriage, not the marriage.  I know because of something that happened.  Because I came to know Norma?  No, I knew her about two years before we were married.  I knew quite a bit about her.  That is the intellectual part. But somewhere I fell in love with her.  I was willing to condition my happiness on her happiness for the rest of my life.  My need to please her became greater than any other need in me.  That is love. We weren’t married for another two years after that.  I knew her and loved her, isn’t that enough?  No. We were not married until I combined the intellectual knowledge with the emotions of the heart and made a decision of the will before a man representing God, and before witnesses, and promised that exclusively and only she would be my partner for the rest of my life.

Now that is the way faith acts.  Faith says, “I know about Jesus.  He died on the cross.  He bore my sin.  He paid the penalty for all my sin.”   (You can know that a long time and not be saved.)  But faith says “Somewhere along the line I began to love this One who loved me so much that He died for me.  (And you can love Him and not be saved.)  That intellectual knowledge along  with the emotion of love has to be acted upon in a moment of choice that says, “I, the sinner, exclusively take you, Jesus, as my Savior forever and forever.  See the analogy?

There are other questions you could ask now, but they are different.  You could ask me, “Are you a good husband?”  I would say “Well, I think I am.  I hope I am.  I am trying to be.”   Or, “You had better ask my wife.”   That is like the question, “Are you a good Christian?”   My answer to that has to be, “I think I am.  I hope I am.  I am trying to be.”   Or, “You had better ask my wife.”   But that is quite different from the question, “Are you a Christian?”   Wouldn’t it be crazy for me to say, “I hope that I live up to the ideal of being a good husband so that I can be married some day.”   That would be just as silly as to say,  “I am trying to be a good Christian so that I can know that I am a Christian some day.”

Last month I defined faith by the acrostic “Forsaking All I Trust Him”.  In trying to teach that definition of faith, I found that many people think it means forsaking all in the sense of forsaking family, friends, bad habits, or little vices.  But that is not what it means.  It means that I am Forsaking all my rules, religion, rituals,  and regulations.  It means believing that I cannot do anything to save myself – that I must trust Jesus Christ and Him exclusively for my salvation. 

One of the men I met who best understood what faith is, at least at that moment, rejected Jesus Christ.  When I explained to him how you can trust Jesus Christ alone he said, “But I think I am all right.  You see, I was baptized as an infant and as long as I stay in that state of grace I am all right.  I don’t need to make that decision you are talking about.  As long as I go to church and attend to certain rituals, I am all right.”   In other words, he was trusting in those rituals.  He said, “What you are asking me to do (here is where he understood very well what faith is) is throw all that over and risk my eternal destiny on Jesus Christ alone.”   I said, “You have got it.”   That man understood it as well as anyone I have ever heard.

An old Methodist preacher put it well.  When asked on his death bed what he was doing,  he replied , “Doing?  I am throwing overboard all my sermons and all my prayers and all my good works, and I am floating to glory on the plank of pure grace.”   That is faith.  Faith is a transference of your trust from yourself and all of your own goodness, your own rules, regulations, rituals and religions to Jesus Christ and His death on Calvary alone for your salvation.  Forsaking  All, I Trust Him. 

Once you understand that  faith is your response to God’s initiative, you can see why we sometimes talk about degrees of faith.  Jesus said, “…if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”(NIV) Matt 17:20

You see, it is not the size of your faith, it is the object of your faith that is important.  If you are believing in Jim Borror you are in big trouble.  I can not save you.  But if you are believing in the God of the universe, that is something else. 

Deuteronomy 32:20 and Mark 4:40 talk about the ones who had no faith.  There were certain things Jesus could not do because they did not believe.  James 2:17 talks about a dead faith.  A man who says he has faith and does not love his brother, or have any godly activity , is simply showing that his faith was not living faith.  It was dead faith.  It was never alive to begin with.  Matthew 14:30,31 talks about little faith.  However this degree is never spoken of in that way.  It is always an epithet.  It is always a name Jesus called people.  In Matthew 14, as the disciples waver, Peter gets out of the boat and starts to walk upon the water and soon begins to sink.  He calls out to Jesus, and Jesus pulls him up into the boat.  Jesus says to all the disciples, “You of little faith.”   They did not believe who He was.  Again, the important element is the object of faith.  There is great faith in Luke 7.  The centurion came to Jesus and said, “But say the word, and my servant will be healed.”  Luke 7:7 (NIV)  Jesus turned to His disciples and said, “I tell you, I have not found such great faith even in Israel.”  Luke 7:9 (NIV)  Why was his faith great?  It was the faith that made him love a slave and  faith that made him believe that Jesus could heal.  It made him respond and be submissive to authority.  In other words, it was still his response to God’s initiative.  Jesus says, “That is great faith.”   I Corinthians 15:14 says you can have vain faith.  If you do not believe that Jesus rose from the dead and that we are going to be resurrected, then your faith is in vain.  It is still the object of your faith that is important.  I Timothy 1:15 talks about a sincere faith in contrast to a fake faith.  Some people try to put on and take off faith as they would a coat. Faith itself may have degrees, but the object of the faith must remain the same – TheOne Whose death was the penalty for our sins.  Next month -How Can I Know I Have Faith?

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Partnering With God In Our Work

“And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion…” (Gen.1:28). That command has often been applied exclusively to human procreation, but the context of the passage indicates that there is more to it. What are we to multiply? Everything God created. He created food, and we are to multiply and distribute it. God created beauty, and we are to multiply it through the arts, fashion design, architecture, interior decorating, or even gardens and flowers to brighten the house. God created power, and we can harness it.

God called Adam and Eve to work in a setting of abundance. They were not working in order to eat. God provided the food to sustain them while they worked. Although most of us do not enjoy that luxury today, we do need to see an attitude implied here. Working merely to put food on the table soon makes life frustrating and meaningless. Work is our partnership with God in caring for His creation. It starts from the time we first learn responsibility as a child and continues until death.

Work and the Curse If work was meant to be so good, why do not most people find it satisfying and enjoyable? The answer is in Genesis 3 – the curse. In verses 16 and 17, suddenly there is a new division of labor. The man and the woman get separate, and unequal, job descriptions. Competition, power struggles and contention entered the home and work place. Understanding the curse helps us to accept the warning that things will seldom work out the way we plan them. Because of the curse we have to battle with disease, injustice, the innocent suffering with the guilty, and a multitude of things that “just ought not to be.” In the final sentence of the curse God described vocation. Under the curse we are locked into a struggle to survive, a struggle that we will inevitably lose. When the American Institute of Public Opinion made a nationwide survey of workers and their attitudes toward their work, it found that three out of every five workers hate their work.

Thankfully the Bible does not stop with the third chapter of Genesis. The story goes on. We are the people of promise and we live with a purpose and a hope (Ephesians 1:11-14). Spiritual activity is an important part of the Christian life, but it is only a small part of the picture. Work is our primary expression of faith and praise to God. Work is one of our ways of being of service to the neighbors He commands us to love. Work expresses our responsible stewardship of His gifts, and is the most effective means of communicating the good news of salvation to the world.
Most adults spend one-third to one-half of their lives working. This is more time than they devote to any other activity. Work was designed to be a partnership with God. There is no more humbling thought than that of St. Augustine: “Without God, we cannot. Without us, God will not.”

A good expression of our divine commission is the line from Robert Frost:
“The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.”

What Makes Life Worth Living and Work Sacred?
1. Having a covenant with God (promises to keep)
2. A sense of mission (miles to go before I sleep)

Work As Worship
Brother Lawrence, a French monk, once said, “The time of business does not with me differ from the time of prayer, and in the noise and clatter of my kitchen, while several persons are at the same time calling for different things, I possess God in as great tranquillity as if I were upon my knees at the blessed sacrament.”

Truths That Every Christian Should Embrace
1. Your life is ordained by God and is significant.  You are not an accident. The way you are put together is part of God’s design for your involvement in this world (Psalm 139:14,15).
2. Your work is ordained by God and is important (Ecclesiaste 9:10; 1 Corinthians 10:31).
3. You are an important part of God’s purpose (1 Corinthians 12:14-26). You are a segment of the Body of Christ. Any member of a body has two responsibilities: a. To be    restfully available, b. To be instantly obedient
4. “There is no division between the secular and the sacred; to the Christian, all things are sacred.” -– Bob Jones Sr.
5. You have many choices of activity within the moral will of God, any of which you can do for God’s glory and with which He will be pleased.
We are called to function not just by who we are but who we are in Christ. Rather than resenting God for withholding employment or work in the church appropriate to your abilities, education or background, realize that there are many ways you can do God’s will. God is not as much concerned with what you do as much as He is concerned that you do it with integrity and for His glory (1 Corinthians 10:31; Colossians 3:17).
6. The only real mistake you can make is to refuse (or refrain) to glorify God where you are (Ephesians 1:11; Genesis 45:8; 50:20).
Like a Persian weaver, the Master incorporates our mistakes into His design to make the result truly beautiful (Romans 8:28). Even the worst of disasters in your career or your church work can be God’s training to form His character in you, and/or His training for another, more satisfying, work.

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Teen-Age Parenting Equations

Erma Bombeck said that she and her husband tried to take separate vacations but it didn’t work because the children always found them.

A boss I used to have at the YMCA in Dallas, Texas had six boys. He used to tell me, “I can remember the days when I was studying sociology in college. I had no children and six theories on how to raise kids; now I have six children and no theories.”

I am often asked the question, “When is a child no longer under the responsibility of obedience?” It may be somewhat like the question, “When am I old enough to get married?” That answer is, “When you are mature enough to be financially, emotionally and physically independent of your parents.” If you did move out from under a responsibility of obedience, you would still be under some responsibility of counsel, and you are always under the responsibility of honoring your father and your mother.

Ephesians 6:2-3 says, “Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise. That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.” And then the responsibility of the fathers is given in verse 4: “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” 2 Tim 3:6-17(NIV). The word for “instruction” is found only in Paul (and Hebrews); it is translated “nurture” in Eph 6:4. In Heb 12:5,7-8,11 it is rendered “chastening.” 17. The “training”is obviously preventative and the “instruction” (discipline) is corrective. Dads, you are primarily responsible to set the pace spiritually. Howard Hendricks says that the phrase “Go ask your mother” is the “Reverse Standard Version” of the Bible.

One psychologist says that he asked something like 1000 parents, “What do you believe in?” and their answer was, ‘We believe in our children.” Now at first blush that sounds very good, but when you deify your children, that is a huge responsibility for your children.

Look at Some Minuses:

1. Actions Minus Purpose = Apathy

Have a purpose for what you want them to do. I like Dr. Henry Brandt’s statement, “Don’t lose the game in the last two minutes.” Many parents give up in those teen years.

2. Teaching Minus Practicing = Disrespect

1. Model the lifestyle you want them to have.

2. Provide an example by trying to communicate to them a desire to study the Word of God.

3. Provide an example by showing them that you enjoy going to church.

Many times young people ask. “Do you think it’s right for my parents to force me to go to church?” Erma Bombeck’s answer was “We give them a choice – after they are there they can choose whether they like it or not.”

4. Provide a model of apology and forgiveness.

5. Provide a model in attitudes (Houseclean your attitudes)

3. Rules Minus A Relationship = Rebellion.

Do not get into the trap of “quality” versus “quantity” time. Quantity will have a way of breeding quality, if you are willing to spend quantity time.

4. Privileges Minus Responsibility = Immaturity.

May I suggest, Dad, that you take your daughter on her first date at thirteen, and Mom, take your son on his first date at thirteen. We did that with our children and had a great time. Talk about some of the things they are going to face as they are teenagers and let them know that each year there will be a new widened ring of freedom and with it will be more responsibilities. Now, if in that year they do not take the responsibility commensurate to the freedom, then the next year there is no widening of that ring of freedom. Teach them that the two go together and only as they show responsibility will you widen the ring of freedom. (Responsibility is the learning of resourcefulness.)

1. Responsibilities for finances.

2. Responsibilities for church attendance.

3. Responsibilities for helping.

5. Prohibiting Minus Providing = Perversity

As a general rule we ought not prohibit unless we can provide alternatives.

TEACH SOME POSITIVES

1. Love plus sex = babies.

They need to learn that actions have consequences. God forgives sin, but the consequences often remain.

2. The world belongs to the disciplined.

This is a paraphrase of Matthew 5:5. The person who disciplines his/her emotions, thoughts and actions can do almost anything.

3. Service is the path down to greatness. (Phil. 2:1-11)

4. Submission to authority is the gate to the road of happiness.

5. Freedom is the opportunity for self-discipline.

6. Standing alone is the proof of fellowship with Christ.

Standing against peer pressure for what one knows is right.

7. The disciplines of holiness are the only secrets of the victorious Christian life and of the free, contented life.

You don’t find happiness looking for it – you stumble over it on the road of the will of God.

8. You never find in sin that for which you entered the sin to find

9. Jesus did not come to make us comfortable; He came

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The Five Types of Forgiveness

Dale Carnegie once noted that the only animal the grizzly would allow to eat with him was the skunk. Grizzly bears in Yellowstone Park often come to eat at the place where garbage is dumped. This huge bear can fight and beat almost any animal in the West, but it lets the skunk share its meal. Carnegie said that the grizzly surely resented the skunk and could have easily killed the little creature in any fight. No doubt the bear would have liked to have gotten even with him for his intrusion. But he didn’t. Why? Because he knew the high cost of getting even.

Most animals are not dumb. They are much smarter than many humans who allow their stomachs to churn all day, their minds to storm all night and their souls to turn black with hatred as they plot revenge.

Bitterness is the most dangerous of all plagues to healthy Christian living. It will eat away at the vitality of your spiritual life until your once-vibrant testimony is in shambles. It is the “cancer of the soul”, and it claims millions of victims each year. It spreads faster than the common cold and threatens the survival of many churches.

Yet there is a cure for this plague. One of the most beautiful words in any language is the word “forgive.” The word is a common one, but the essence of the word is in the last part, “give”. To for GIVE means to give someone a release from the wrong that he has done to you. It means to give up any right of retaliation.

God’s forgiveness, which must coordinate with His justice, is based upon the payment of the penalty by a substitute. Jesus Christ, His Son, paid the penalty for our sin by dying on the cross.. Looking at Calvary, God is now free to forgive those who come to Him through the blood of Christ.

When God forgives He forgives completely. This kind of forgiveness is “Judicial Forgiveness”. It is one of five kinds of forgiveness in the Bible. A failure to distinguish these kinds of  forgiveness causes great confusion, unnecessary guilt and needless fear.

1. Judicial Forgiveness (The eternal forgiveness of all sins of the one who has trusted Christ. This goes with the doctrine of justification and has to do with the believer’s relationship with God. It is once for all, eternal, and conditioned only on faith in Christ.) The Psalmist says, “Blessed is the man to whom the Lord imputeth not iniquity.” (Ps.32:1-2). He also says, “As far as the East is from the West, so far has He removed our transgressions from us” (Ps.103:12).

You can say right now, “As I have trusted Christ, all my sins past, present, and future are forgiven. God remembers my sin no more.” (Ps 130:4; Acts 26:18; Eph 1:7; Col 1:14 See also Rom.3:21-26;  Heb.9:12; 10:17; Jer. 31:34; Eph. 2:8, 9)

2. Paternal Forgiveness (Restoration of fellowship with God the Father after the believer has broken fellowship by continued, unconfessed sin. This has to do with the believer’s fellowship with God.)

The conditions to this kind of forgiveness are twofold:

        (1) Confession (I Jhn 1:9; John 13:4-10; Matt. 6:12)

        (2) Forgiveness of others (Personal forgiveness – see the next kind of forgiveness.)

3.  Personal Forgiveness (Restoration of fellowship with another human being) .

         (1) This facet of forgiveness is so important that Jesus conditions our forgiveness and restoration to fellowship with our Heavenly Father on our willingness to forgive others. Matt.6:14–15; 18:21 – 35; Luke 6:37; Col.3:13) Matt 18:21-35; Eph. 4:31 – 32 )

        (2) Personal forgiveness has a vertical dimension – we must release the person to God. This can happen anywhere at anytime.  Jesus taught, “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” (Mark 11:25 25)

        (3) Personal forgiveness has a horizontal dimension – we must confront the offender and forgive if he repents. “So watch yourselves. “If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him.” (Luke 17:3)

4.  Social forgiveness (Restoration of fellowship with society  ( John 8:1-10) This may be a personal attitude in our own communities or involve us in ministries like Chuck Colson’s prison ministry.

There is little forgiveness by society today partly because there are very few things that society frowns on.

5.  Ecclesiastical Forgiveness (Restoration of fellowship with the church) 2 Cor.2:5-11; 2 Thess.3:14-15   This Forgiveness assumes a prior discipline by the church body and an evidence of a repentant heart on the part of the one disciplined.. The purpose of discipline is restoration, and forgiveness assumes repentance and restoration.

SOME FURTHER THOUGHTS

You do not have to forget after you forgive; you may, but your forgiving can be sincere even if you remember.

You do not overlook people’s faults by forgiving them; you must forgive them because you do hold them to account and refuse to agree with or overlook thier faults.

Forgiveness deals with our emotional response toward an offender.  Pardon deals with the consequences of his offense. Unless we have the authority we may not be able to pardon an offense, but we can always forgive.

Forgiveness is a miracle of the will that moves away the heavy hindrance to fellowship, a miracle that will be fulfilled when the two estranged people come together in as fair and harmonious a new relationship as is possible at that time and under those circumstances.

Forgiveness offers a chance at reconciliation; it is an opportunity for a life together instead of death together. Forgiveness has creative power to move us away from a past moment of pain, to unshackle us from our endless chain of reactions, and to create a new situation in which both the wrongdoer and the wronged can begin a new way.

The alternative to forgiveness is, in the end, a ceaseless process of hurt, bitterness, anger, resentment and self-destruction.

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A Tale of Three “Royal” Women

Published 10.02.1998  
Last week two amazing, fairy-tale-like lives came to an end and the world joined in a common mourning. Princess Diana and Mother Teresa were worlds apart in their lifestyles and backgrounds. One was royalty, rich, regal, and romantic. The other was a poor commoner, sacrificial, serving, and self denying. But they both seemed to share a compassion for the distressed, the outcast, the disadvantaged. And it is this for which the world most remembers them. They were both mothers – one to the two princes, the other to thousands of poor children.  Their work, and that of a third royal lady,  demonstrated that a true conviction is always accompanied by action and that love in action is true service.

Lady Diana Spencer was a kindergarten teacher of aristocratic birth, The announcement that she would marry Prince Charles, being twelve years his junior, set off a media blitzkrieg and was cause for national celebration.

She was the perfect choice for the prince it seemed  – a virginal young Protestant of suitable pedigree and a spotless past–someone who could endure the scrutiny of the media to which she would certainly be subjected. Diana was the unsophisticated, “inexperienced,” and malleable daughter of one of Queen Elizabeth’s oldest friends–the Earl of Spencer. On July 29, 1981, before 2,650 guests and a worldwide television audience of 750 million spectators, the new shining hope of the people, rode to St. Paul’s Cathedral in a glass coach for the wedding of the century; its fanfare and pageantry probably will never be matched by any other extravaganza, royal or otherwise.

In the next fifteen years, the lovely fairy tale turned into a sordid soap opera, and the marriage ended in an ugly divorce in July of 1996. An agreement was struck whereby,  though technically-speaking Diana would no longer be a member of the royal family, she was to remain Diana, Princess of Wales, and to continue to enjoy some royal perks.

Diana received a $26-million settlement in the divorce and remained the favorite “rose” of the populace. A fanatical press documented accounts of her elbow-rubbing with the world’s elite on trips abroad, her reputed romances, her many charitable endeavors (a charity auction of her Charles-era evening clothes netted $3.25 million), and her activist urgings (she tirelessly lobbied for a worldwide ban on the manufacture and sale of landmines).

Last week Diana and her new beau, millionaire movie producer Dodi Fayed, were killed when the car in which they were attempting to evade paparazzi crashed into the wall of a Paris traffic tunnel at about 100 miles per hour. Her tragic death plunged a shocked world into grief, tinged with fury at the press. Her moving funeral like a return to the fairy tale. Mostly the world paid tribute to her humanitarian service.

Mother Teresa was Albanian by birth; her original name was Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu. In 1948, Mother Teresa became a citizen of India. At the age of 18, she attended the religious Order called Our Lady of Loreto in Ireland. She received her spiritual training in Dublin, Ireland and Darjeeling, India. In 1931, she took the name of Teresa from the French nun Thérèse Martin, who was canonized in 1927 with the title St. Thérèse of Lisieux.

In 1937, Mother Teresa took her vows and taught for 20 years in Saint Mary’s High School in Calcutta, India. On September 10, 1946, Mother Teresa received another call from God to serve the poorest of the poor who live in the streets.

In 1948, Pope Pious XII granted Mother Teresa permission to leave her duties as an independent nun, and she began to share her life with the poor, the sick and the hungry of Calcutta. Mother Teresa established an order called “Missionaries of Charity”. Her initial work consisted of teaching the children of the streets how to read.

In 1950, Mother Teresa began to care for lepers. In 1965, Pope Paul VI put the Missionaries of Charity under the control of the Papacy and gave authorization to Mother Teresa to expand her Order to other countries. Centers have opened almost everywhere around the world to assist lepers, the elderly, the blind, and people living with AIDS. Mother Teresa also opened schools and homes for the poor and abandoned children.

She won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1979 over her own objections, but she accepted it on behalf of the “poorest of the poor”.

Marion Mill was born in a fairy tale royal palace in Hungary. Her first spoon was solid gold. They sent her to school in Vienna where she became an actress, and there she met and fell in love with a young medical student named Otto.

Otto and Marion married and went to live in Hollywood, CA. There, as they “set up house”, he began to dabble in movies.  He became so interested in movies and in directing movies that he gave up his medical practice, and went on to become the internationally famed movie director Otto Preminger. Marion’s beauty, wit, and irresistible charm brought her everything a woman desires. In Europe, New York and Hollywood she became a famous international hostess.

But Otto’s princess could not handle the fast life of Hollywood.  She went into alcohol, drugs and numerous affairs.  Her life and life-style become so sordid, even for Hollywood, that Otto Preminger divorced Marion.  She tried to take her own life three times, unsuccessfully, and finally moved back to Vienna.

There at a party she met another doctor,  named Albert Schweitzer, the well known medical doctor, musician, philosopher, theologian and missionary, Schweitzer was home on leave from his hospital in Lambarene, Africa. 

She was so fascinated by Schweitzer, that she asked him if she could talk to him alone, and he permitted that. For almost six months, every week, she met with Dr. Albert Schweitzer.  At the end of that time he was going to go back to Africa, and she begged him let her go with him. Schweitzer surprised everyone by agreeing.  Marion, the young princess, who was born in a palace went to a little village in Lambarene, Africa, and spent the rest of her life emptying bed pans and tearing up sheets to make bandages for putrid sores on the poverty stricken nationals.

She wrote her autobiography.  I love the title of it – All I Want is Everything“.  When she died, Time Magazine quoted from her autobiography these words:  “‘Albert Schweitzer says there are two kinds of people.  There are the helpers, and the non-helpers.  I thank God He allowed me to become a helper, and in helping, I found everything’”.

Mark 10: 42-45
But Jesus called them (Disciples) to Himself and said to them, “You know that those who are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them.  Yet it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you shall be your servant .  And whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all.  For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”  

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Why you do what you do…in your Church

What do preachers mean by “A Philosophy of Ministry”

Some dictionary definitions of a “philosophy” are: “Any system of motivating concepts or principles” –(American Heritage) “The general principles of a field of study” (Webster’s) The word “Principle” means, “A comprehensive and fundamental law, doctrine, or assumption” (Webster’s). Synonymns include:  “tenet, code, doctrine…rule, law, and precept” (Roget’s Thesaurus).  So when preachers talk about a “philosophy of ministry” they are talking about “the general principles (i.e., tenets, convictions, laws, etc.)” of their church’s ministry. Presumably, these principles would form the foundation for the church’s work  providing an answer, in some form, to the crucial question, “Why do we do what we do in ministry?”

It is important to realize that this “philosophy of ministry” does not simply equal “programming.”  We can still ask, “Why do we run the programs that we do? for example,  Why do we have social events? Why do we have Bible studies?  Why do we even have Sunday School?” Do we hold these events simply because all churches do or do we use them for specific purposes in line with our final goals?

Neither is “Organization” synonymous with a philosophy of ministry. Here also, we can ask, “Why are we organized the way we are?” For example, why do we have certain individuals up front?  Why do we have given committees? Should we have them?

While involving these two primary areas, a philosophy of ministry goes beyond them. In fact, when rightly understood, a philosophy of ministry becomes the foundation for everything that happens in that ministry, including programs and organization.

Why is it important?

1.  It can unify the church, giving it a common foundation to stand upon and a common direction in which to move.

2.  It helps to deliver from the peril of motion without meaning – doing things without any real purpose, being active, yet accomplishing nothing.

3.  We can use it to evaluate our motives and methodology. It can keep us Biblical and balanced, having a ministry, which is founded upon the authority and teaching of God’s Word.

So, what should a good philosophy of ministry include?

A Biblical philosophy of ministry would start with God, not man, as the ultimate source of the ministry (I Cor.3:6). God’s goals for the Christian are superhuman (I Pet.2:12; I John 3:16; Eph.5:18-20). In fact, Christian growth is actually beyond the realm of human effort (Gal.3:1-5). Apart from Christ (through His Spirit), we can do nothing (John 15:5). Ministry and spiritual growth are things that God accomplishes by means of the Holy Spirit (I Thess.1:5; Titus 3:5).

In His graciousness, God has allowed us to have a part in His work (II Cor.5:20). We are to abide in Christ (John 15:5) and rely on the Spirit to bring about change (Gal.5:18,22-23). We abide in the Lord as we abide in the Word of God (I John 2:24; 3:24; John 15:10).

A Biblical philosophy of ministry understands that the Bible, not human wisdom, is the authority for our ministry.(Is.55:6-11). It serves as the ultimate judge as to what we believe as truth (John 16:13; II Pet.1:20-21). All experiences and circumstances must be interpreted in the light of what Scripture states (I Cor.14:29; Dt.13:1-3). It gives us the content or the “what” of the Christian life (e.g., What is the nature of God, the nature of man, etc.?). It also serves as the ultimate judge as to what principles direct our methods of ministry (IICor.1:12). By saying that the Bible is God’s “Method Book”, we are saying that it gives us the process or the “how” of the Christian life (e.g., How do I pray, study, do the work and worship of God)

In talking about methods, distinguish between absolutes and non-absolutes, (And also between principles and preferences). Absolutes are the foundational Biblical principles that do not vary with time or culture (e.g., Christians should gather together as stated in Heb.10:24-25). Non-absolutes are specific applications that may vary with time or culture (e.g., Christians should gather together at 11 am on Sunday and sit in pews). The absolutes are eternal and unchanging, but there should be great freedom to change the non-absolutes, depending on the needs of a particular place, situation, or culture.

This philosophy knows that people, not programs, are the focus of a ministry (I Thess.2:8;John 3:16). The church is not a building, nor an institution, an organization, a program. The church is people. All programming and organizations are only means to the end of bringing about changes in people. We should continually avoid the temptation to adapt people to fit our programs. Instead, we must adapt our programs to fit our people.

A Biblical philosophy of ministry works toward mature believers, not simply converts, as the goal of ministry Col.1:28-29). Christ commanded us to “make disciples” (Matt.28:20), not merely converts. One way of describing a “disciple” is that he is a person who lives life according to Biblical priorities, such as: a progressive commitment to Jesus Christ (Mt.6:33; Lk.9:23); to the family (I Tim.5:8; Dt.6:23); to the Body of Christ (Gal.6:10), and to the work of Christ in the world.(Acts 1:8).

A Biblical philosophy of ministry sees the corporate body, not individualism, as the environment for ministry. (Rom.12:3-8). We must be the people of God before we do the work of God. Jesus said that the world would know that we are His disciples if we love one another (Jn.13:34-35). He repeats this concept in John 17:27 when He says that the world will know that He was sent by the Father when they see the unity of the believers.

This means that every member is a minister – the ministry is not just for the seminary trained professional. God has gifted every believer (Rom.12:3-8; I Cor.12:7-11) so that they might have a part in building up the Body of Christ. Everyone is essential and unique in this process.

God has called some to leadership. A leader is preeminently a servant (Mk.10:45). He is committed to making others successful and he serves by pastoring the flock (I Pet.5:2-4), equipping them for their ministries (Eph.4:11-12). Alternately, those under their authority should submit to their leadership (Heb.13:17; I Pet.5:5; Rom.13:1-7). The only exception to this is when the leadership is calling the people to do something which would result in their clear disobedience of a Biblical absolute. Evangelism grows naturally out of such a loving and united fellowship.

Spiritual reproduction, not spiritual addition, is the process of such a ministry. (II Tim.2:2). (Spiritual reproduction is the process of reproducing in others what the Spirit of God is doing in you, and in turn, enabling them to reproduce it in a third generation)

 So, what does this mean to Us?

If we really believe this, then we must realize that we are unqualified to minister to anyone (II Cor.3:5-6). Only God can bring growth in another’s life, just as He alone can give life to begin with (I Cor.3:6). This helps us to recognize that it is God’s grace that equips us for any ministry (Rom.1:5;12:6), and that we can do all things in Christ who strengthens us (Phil.4:13).

We who want to serve should determine to abide in Christ (John 15:4-5) by living a moment-by-moment dependence on God (Prov.3:5-6), committing ourselves to the Word and prayer (Acts 6:4). As someone has well said, “Without God, I cannot; without me, God will not.”

Such a ministry would mean a determined effort to keep a loving unity in the church, and a commitment to purposefully limit our efforts to discipling individuals for spiritual reproduction. (Lk.10:30; I Thess.2:1-12).

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